I often wonder what makes a man SOO enraged to the point that he beats his wife to a pulp...on a daily basis!
I know a bloke who lets his young girlfriend beat his WIFE !!! (He's been married to his wife for 14 years and have two kids together)

Just last week,he pinned down his wife onto the floor and let his young girlfriend do the beating and kicking.. It's not the first time they've done it. The other time,they tied the wife with a rope and started HAVING SEX in front of her!!!!! They tied her hands so tight behind her back that there was no way of freeing herself or getting up..and forced her to watch it. If she wasn't watching,they'd stop and beat her up..then they'd continue having sex. After they finished,the girlfriend pissed on her...while the husband laughed out loud.. At one point,he walked over her on his way to the kitchen to get some wine..When he came back,he stepped on her face and spat at her.

Sometimes he cuffs his wife and goes to help his children with their homework and leaves the girlfriend to do the beating.She brought him here from Africa & they opened a college together. (I met the 44yr old sugar mummy who wants me through her..and NO I wasn't looking for a sugar mummy..)


Another bloke...who has a very beautiful wife...beats the crap out of her..She's SOO beautiful and nice it's almost unbelievable. He strangles,kicks,scratches & rapes her on a DAILY basis..He doesn't bring in any money at all..He doesn't work..All he does is drive around in his stupid car doing nothing.He looks like an armed robber.She says she can't leave him because they've been together since high school..She should be around 38years old now. She feels she won't find anyone so she'll just settle with him.She doesn't love him. He's always wanted a kid but she somehow can't have any..even though they are both fertile..He's tried all the sexual positions known to man but nothing happens.
She reported him to the police a few years ago and later dropped the charges because the guy's family back in Africa threatened to kill her family over there.He gets ALL her wages and sends them to his relatives and friends.He doesn't even buy shit for himself!! let alone her.She's a nurse and his visa depends on her.

Another girl...she's wanted me ever since she was 18 got married to a pretty violent fella.She's been with him for TEN years..He rapes her EVERYDAY!! He's poked her eyes,stuck fingers up her nose,mouth..even sodomised her. When they are having sex,he just sticks a few fingers up her arse without warning. The bloke looks "respectable",doesn't drink or smoke and has a somewhat okay job.He doesn't cheat on her.His visa depends on her.The girl is a nurse.
She's been trying to get with me for 6 years!! I would get with her but the violence and trauma could be a problem.

I know a couple of other women who get beat up a lot. I wonder what makes some men do this. Is it because the women don't listen?but still..that's no excuse.

the men did not have good father figures growing up...their mothers chose the wrong men and these women have been demoralised, traumatised and stripped of their dignity, confidence and self-worth (that is if they ever had it to begin with)its a very sad situation that unfortunately some people find themslves in (e.g the visa issue) and promise themselves that they will leave after they get what they want...but by then it might be too late... it only takes a blow to a certain part of the body or a fall and they are dead... trust me...its not about the women not "listening" (do you think they are children or summin????) and yes there is no excuse to accept or give such abuse!

Yeah I was thinking about it the other day. Fathers give their children self confidence and a high self esteem ..whereas .mothers give the emotional side of things..

But some of these men turn out to be idiots anyway even if they came from a good background..Like the last bloke in main articles,he's from a "loving and caring family" but he just turned out to be an idiot.
I don't think i could ever raise my voice at a woman..I've never done it..

Would it be advisable to marry a woman who's last relationship was a ten year long violent one???

no...not unless she deals with her issues by getting counselling and psycological help...the change in behavior might be too much for her (shock to her system) and you will find that she might provoke you just so you can hit her coz to some women in these situations a man who loves you beats you...besides she needs time to find herself again build up her self esteem and be able to stand on her own two feet...

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she needs to learn how to walk in a room and have every man look at her and want her - and she needs to learn how to play them too!

besides do you think you are in the right frame of mind to take on such a burden??? dont be a hero... you dont own a white horse and shining armour anyway!

There are times when this violent acts makes the kids go coo coo. Take the example of this chic [real pretty] who grew up watching her father whup her mother EVERYDAY . When this chic got married she thot it was a natural thing to get beaten up but her husband being a wonderful dude couldnt understand why. One day she blocked the doorway and demanded that he beat her or else there was no way he was going 2 work. Her father had to travel down like 300 kilometers to apologise and explain how things shoulda been. Nice story huh.
Well they say what goes around comes around somehow. I was with this friend of mine and we watched 2 guys whupp they father's ass. they beat the living shit out of that old man cos he'd been doing it to they mom.

2 guys beating whooping their father ? shame on that old man === Original Message === There are times when this violent acts makes the kids go coo coo. Take the example of this chic [real pretty] who grew up watching her father whup her mother EVERYDAY . When this chic got married she thot it was a natural thing to get beaten up but her husband being a wonderful dude couldnt understand why. One day she blocked the doorway and demanded that he beat her or else there was no way he was going 2 work. Her father had to travel down like 300 kilometers to apologise and explain how things shoulda been. Nice story huh.
Well they say what goes around comes around somehow. I was with this friend of mine and we watched 2 guys whupp they father's ass. they beat the living shit out of that old man cos he'd been doing it to they mom.

I think these men who beat up their wives are quite insecure and have a very low self esteem of themselves. I know quite a lot of men who hate a confident women.. Not a lot of men like someone who's cleverer than them especially if it's their wife.. They'll try to do anything to break her down..I guess that's where the term "put her in her place" stems from. Most men tend to like women who have a low self esteem of themselves because they can easily exploit and manipulate them..

The bible says you should honour your parents so i think beating up parents is just downright disrespect and it's highly likely that you'd be cursed.I think it's the second commandment. Your parents have some sort of "higher power" over you and you need their blessings.

the bible also says that parents should not provoke their children to anger...




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The bible says you should honour your parents so i think beating up parents is just downright disrespect and it's highly likely that you'd be cursed.I think it's the second commandment. Your parents have some sort of "higher power" over you and you need their blessings.